ABOUT

I’ve always been a runner.
Not in a serious, race-times, GPS-watch way - though I got there eventually. More in the way where it was just quietly part of who I was. Something that was mine before I even understood why.

For a long time, if I’m honest, it was also about how it looked. I didn’t clock until much later that what running was actually giving me was space. Clarity. A version of myself I recognised.

Then motherhood arrived- and that version of me went quiet.

Not dramatically. Not overnight. Just gradually, the way things do when life fills up with everything else. I loved it, all of it. But there was a part of me that had gone somewhere, and I didn’t know how to get her back.
Running brought me back. Not the fitness. Not the pace or the mileage or the plan. Just the act of it - moving through the world at my own rhythm, in my own time, thinking my own thoughts.

It gave me back something I hadn’t realised I’d lost: the feeling that my life was still mine.

WHAT I'VE LEARNED

But it didn’t just fall into place.

I went through the stop-start cycle like most mums do. Routines broke, energy dipped, and some weeks it felt like the hardest thing in the world to lace up and get out the door.

What I understand now, from the certifications, the research, the years of writing about it, and the hundreds of conversations with women who feel exactly the same, is that it’s rarely just one thing.

It’s never just a lack of motivation.
It’s the mental load, the body uncertainty, the logistics, the social environment, the slow erosion of believing you’re still someone who does this.

That’s what I write about here.
Not how to run faster or train harder. But how to build a life where movement is just part of it - where it fits, where it sticks, and where it gives back more than it takes.

Because that’s what it can do, when you approach it right.


Running. (Obviously.)

Writing - the kind that makes something click. That moment where a sentence lands and you think: yes, exactly that.

Behaviour change psychology, because understanding why we do what we do is genuinely one of the most interesting things in the world.

Travel that moves - literally. Races abroad, running routes through new cities, adventures that don’t require lying horizontal for a week. With kids. Sans Kids.

And a good pun. Hard lover of a pun since 1985. Unashamed.

My jam(s):

My best plate.
The reason for it all. My kids are just the best

Finally. 40 years and counting, people.

Picko, pickles, egg, EP. The self proclaimed life and soul of the party.

MUM

FIANCE

FRIEND

Spinning all the plates

Reading, writing, researching. Making it all have a point, a story. Bringing it all to life lights me the hell up.

Runner for life. Runner in motherhood. 3 marathons in with no signs of slowing down.

WRITER

MOTHERRUNNER

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